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Just over here basking in the warmth of your words feeling validated, comforted and inspired 🌻Thank you

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Love to you Valisha <3

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Beautiful. I have loved all your essays. My baby is only just over a year but I feel like I can sense the transition you’re describing here.

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It is coming! Thank you for being here Jessica. Big love to you and your little one.

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Oh such sweetness in these words. I remember this so vividly with my first, this cosmic shift that comes as they turn from babies to toddlers, and then now she is almost 4 this shift from toddler to little girl... and the ongoing seasons both amaze me and floor me with a sense of loss too. Now with my second baby, who is 8 months and will be my last, I both look forward to these milestones and also feel so sad to close the door on chapters. Your words really are beautiful xxx

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The loss and the wonder go hand-in-hand don't they?? Thank you so much for being here Lauren.

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It’s a pleasure to receive your words, thank you for sharing xx

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Absolutely beautiful, Asia. It feels so kismet reading this as I was just having coffee with my own mom this morning and we were discussing this subtle shift that happens around 1.5. My daughter is going to be 2 next month, and it really does feel like we've hit the other side. She's so much more independent, and I'm able to think clearly again. We've come out of babyhood and into this exciting new chapter. You described it all perfectly.

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It's so nice to clear you *are* able to actually think clearly again, ha! But seriously tho, thank you for reaching back from your vantage point to give us all a wee draught of strength. Sending you love Hunter!!

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Asia this is stunning, thank you for the way you've spoken this. What a gift. xxxx

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I love you dear friend!!

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For me, part of the magic of motherhood was loving every age my son was in a little bit more than the last. It's a remarkable thing. I expected to miss his toddlerhood, but it was always just a wonder to behold his growth. (Except those teenage years. I could've skipped those. Lol.😁) He's 26 now and I'm still loving every new age!

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Oh this is so healing and hopeful to hear. Thank you, thank you Jenna. (Also, I hear that about the teen years...ha! Not trying to reach those anytime soon). I'm so glad you're here! Big love to you.

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Thank you! Big love right back to you! 🤗💖

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Loved this! Linking to a friend now who I think will enjoy too xx

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Thank you Kat!!

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I think our daughters are the same age ❤🌠 been noticing the subtle/not so subtle new territory... beautiful writing

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It's such a sweet age isn't it?? <3 <3 <3

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Beautiful words. My little one is 19 months now and this is exactly what it’s like for me, too. I used to dread the change but now I see the wonder in all of it and know that I’ve gone through so much to get here that I’m more equipped than I’d have ever imagined for the future phases. Thank you for sharing!

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I love this so much! You have such a way with words! I was wondering if it would be okay for me to quote you from this piece in a book I am writing about motherhood? Obviously I will reference your name and also this substack.

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Absolutely beautiful. Every single word. I have a seventeen month old and you have perfectly put my experience, my reflections and the way I’ve been dancing through this ever changing sea into words. Thank you 🤍

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