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Wow. I'm not a parent, but I still relate to this feeling. Getting swept up in the currents of life. I have a lot of new responsibilities, family things and young people to mentor...life calling on me in new ways. It's a whole new sea of experience that I'm learning to swim in.

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Apr 21Liked by Asia Suler

Totally. I remember this feeling too. Your attention is constantly being drawn back to your child so it’s pretty difficult to get focused on anything else. I remember feeling that loneliness of standing still when everything was swirling around me, and seemingly moving forward without me. But it’s helpful to learn how to be where you are — for that moment and for when you are back in the swirl — to appreciate the “standing still now”. Thanks for writing about it ✨

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Mmmm, the loneliness of standing still when everything was swirling around me. This feels so tender and true, Kary. Thank you, thank you for this.

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Apr 21Liked by Asia Suler

This so poignantly describes the whirlwind the early years of parenthood brings. ✨

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Thank you Asia. I can feel my North Star flickering back to life with a daily devotion (for months now) to reclaim myself and re-centre.

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This is so powerful, and empowering, to hear Claire. Thank you for giving us this glimmer on the horizon...

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There is always hope 💫

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I’ve been feeling the same way as of late. I have always loved getting lost in the vastness of the cosmos. This has been so meaningful to read.

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When my son was born I felt fuelled by creative energy. But as he has grown (now 7) my energy has dwindled and I too feel this loss of direction. Thank you for reminding me to gaze at the stars anyway and go with it. 🌟

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