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Waterwoman Knits's avatar

How beautifully expressed. I see this as your next book. For me, having my child allowed me to leave an abusive relationship. I was unable to do so for myself, but as soon as I saw the vulnerability of the young being in my charge, I knew I had to leave. That's letting go of what does not belong, and it's been now 22 years of single parenting and letting go while watching my child blossom into an adult. She is not expressive normally, but I want to share something she wrote in acknowledgments published in her undergrad thesis a few months ago to encourage all who are in the thick of the constant pulling of a young child that some distant day, what you are doing may be acknowledged.

"Mom, you are one of the strongest people I have ever known, and I would not be here without everything in life you have gifted to me. Thank you for your love, trust, and wisdom. You have never said no to my crazy pursuits, and I am grateful for the freedom you have granted me to become my own person."

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Hunter Burgtorf's avatar

This is beyond beautiful, Asia. I love how you related the nakedness of motherhood to the story of Inanna, too. I feel this so deeply. My daughter is now nearing two years and I am just starting to feel like I'm emerging back into life & wanting to meet up with friends again and such. I was in a cocoon for two years, and it taught me so much about myself that I now cherish. You summed the experience up perfectly. Thank you so much for sharing. Xx

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